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Mindsetβ€’September 8, 2026

Beyond the Scoreboard: Build Your "Inner Backbone" with the SHAS Method (Carom Billiards)

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Nicky Defraeye

Champion Mindset Coach

Beyond the Scoreboard: Build Your "Inner Backbone" with the SHAS Method (Carom Billiards)

Carom billiards is a quiet sport on the outside β€” and a loud one on the inside. Matches are often decided in the few seconds between shots: one miss, one bad reaction, one rushed decision… and suddenly your cue speed changes, your rhythm disappears, and you start "trying" instead of playing. That's usually not a technique problem. It's a self-esteem problem.

A lot of players (even strong ones) unknowingly make their self-worth a hostage to the result. If you feel "good" only when you win, your mental base is too narrow. And in a sport as unforgiving as carom β€” where a tiny deviation in speed, line, or timing can flip a whole inning β€” you need something stronger than confidence. You need an inner backbone: a stable identity that stays upright whether you're running points or fighting for a single safe.

That's exactly what the SHAS Method (from the TARGET mental preparation system) is designed to build.

What is the SHAS Method?

SHAS is a simple way to check how solid your "reasons for being a player" really are. Instead of building your identity on one fragile pillar β€” winning β€” you build multiple pillars that support your mindset under pressure.

SHAS stands for:

  • β€’Surface
  • β€’Height (or Volume)
  • β€’Autonomy
  • β€’Stability

Let's translate each one into carom player language.

1) Surface: diversify your identity (so one match can't destroy you)

Surface is the breadth of your life and your projects. If your whole identity is "I'm a carom player and I must win," you're at risk. Because when you lose, it doesn't feel like you lost a match β€” it feels like you are a failure.

Carom application: build a wider "surface" on purpose.

Examples of extra pillars:

  • β€’Your training process (systems, drills, routines)
  • β€’Your physical base (sleep, mobility, conditioning)
  • β€’Your family / relationships
  • β€’Your work / business
  • β€’Your learning identity (becoming a smarter tactical player)

When your surface is wide, a loss becomes what it should be: feedback. Not a verdict.

2) Height: value the process (not just the trophy)

Height is the value you give to your projects. Many players only give value to the result: ranking, tournament wins, averages, "what people will say."

But carom rewards the player who can repeat good decisions and stable execution β€” especially when the table gets tight and the nerves show up.

Carom application: give "height" to mastery goals like:

  • β€’Cueing rhythm and timing
  • β€’Speed control consistency
  • β€’Tactical patience (not forcing the hero shot)
  • β€’Error recovery discipline
  • β€’Pre-shot routine quality

When you value how you play, your self-esteem stops swinging with every point.

3) Autonomy: own your reasons (or pressure will own you)

Autonomy asks a tough question: Are you playing for yourself β€” or for approval?

If your self-esteem depends on a coach, a club, a partner, or your ranking, it becomes fragile. And fragile confidence collapses under match pressure.

Carom application: write your reasons in the first person. Examples:

  • β€’"I build a game I can trust under pressure."
  • β€’"I compete to master my decision-making."
  • β€’"I want to become calm and accurate when it matters."

Then bring your focus back to what you control:

  • β€’routine
  • β€’effort
  • β€’choices
  • β€’attitude after mistakes

Not the opponent, not the crowd, not the scoreboard.

4) Stability: anchor your values (so one miss doesn't become a meltdown)

Stability means your reasons for playing don't change every time your energy dips or you miss a ball. Without stability, one error becomes a label: "I always choke." And once you label it, you start playing tight.

Carom application: anchor yourself in long-term values:

  • β€’discipline
  • β€’learning
  • β€’patience
  • β€’craftsmanship
  • β€’respect for the process

Win or lose today, you're still that player. That's what creates calm under pressure β€” because your "core" isn't on the line every inning.

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About Nicky Defraeye

Certified Methode Target coach, former competitive billiard player, and founder of Champion Mindset Coaching. Helping players unlock their full potential through proven mindset techniques.

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